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Valentine’s Day Isn’t the Problem. Unspoken Expectations Are.

Christine Bongiovanni-Stiff Episode 252

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Valentine’s Day expectations in marriage often go unspoken — and that’s where disappointment begins.
In this episode, Christine explores how waiting for your spouse to meet expectations without clear communication can create quiet resentment. You’ll learn how to examine what you truly want, share your desires with clarity, and use Valentine’s Day as an invitation for deeper connection rather than pressure.

Christine also discusses how to express love without conditions, take care of your own heart when expectations aren’t met, and start honest conversations that build intimacy over time.

Resources mentioned:
Gentle Start Guide to Better Communication
Courageous Love Conversation

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