AwakenYou in Your Marriage

Relearning How to Enjoy Each Other Again

Christine Bongiovanni-Stiff Episode 265

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Have date nights, vacations, or time together with your spouse started to feel awkward or uncomfortable?

You're not alone in wondering what happened.

In this episode, I share reflections from a recent anniversary getaway with Jeff and why reconnecting after seasons of stress, distance, and disconnection often feels awkward before it feels close.

We'll talk about:

  • Why couples slowly stop enjoying time together
  • The pressure we put on ourselves to "feel connected"
  • Why awkwardness isn't always a sign something is wrong
  • How emotional safety and shared experiences rebuild trust over time
  • The difference between forcing connection and staying present with what is
  • Why you don't have to recreate the marriage you once had—you can create something new

If spending time together hasn't felt easy lately, I hope this conversation reminds you that rebuilding intimacy doesn't usually happen in grand moments.

Sometimes it begins quietly.

Sometimes it begins with simply staying.

Resources Mentioned:

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